
Discovering the Benefits of Open Communication in Therapy with Vanesa Zaratan, Relationship Counsellor.
- Jacqueline Thompson
- Jul 11
- 4 min read
Updated: Jul 31
Open communication is essential in therapy, providing a safe space for individuals to express their thoughts and feelings. Vanesa is our Relationship Counsellor at Edinburgh CBT & Counselling Services. In this blog post Vanesa helps us explore the benefits of open communication in therapy, particularly how it strengthens connection, understanding, and personal growth.

Communication in Relationship Counselling Goes Both Ways
For Vanesa, communciation in therapy is more than talking; it's a dynamic process that involves both the therapist and client. In clearly expressing their emotions and thoughts, therapists can better understand their experiences. This two-way exchange promotes trust, allowing clients to feel safe while they navigate their personal struggles. Vanesa helps clients actively listen to each other.
Open communication significantly influences the therapeutic relationship. It enables clients to confront uncomfortable topics, rather than avoiding them, which leads to deeper insights and healing. For example, a client discussing anxiety might reveal underlying fears that contribute to their anxiety. Through open dialogue, Vanesa helps her clients address these issues more effectively,
Research shows that therapists who facilitate open communication create a supportive environment conducive to healing. A study published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology found that patients who felt understood and heard by their therapists were more likely to report positive therapy outcomes.

The Power of Vulnerability
Vulnerability is often a key component of open communication. When clients are willing to be vulnerable, they open the door to authenticity and personal growth. According to Vanesa, showing vulnerabilities can be daunting, but she believes t's an essential step in the therapeutic process.
Clients can initially be hesitant in revieling intimate fears or past traumas. However, through the therapist's gentle encouragement, clients can learn that sharing these experiences is not only safe but also liberating. This openness, according to Vanesa, can help to remove emotional barriers, allowing clients to explore their feelings and experiences in a more thorough manner.
Vanesa plays an instrumental role in creating a culture of vulnerability where clients can express their authentic selves. They can use reflective listening techniques and validation to encourage clients to share their stories. Ultimately, embracing vulnerability can lead to increased self-awareness and stronger self-acceptance.
How Much Do Relationship Counselling & Talking Therapies Cost?
The cost of therapy can vary widely based on several factors, such as location, therapist expertise, and the type of therapy.
Often insurance plans like BUPA can cover a portion of these costs, making therapy more affordable. Currently we only accept referrals from BUPA for individual counselling. At Edinburgh CBT & Counselling Services we have set the fee at £55, in an effort to make Couples Counselling more accessible.
Couples Counselling can lead to significant personal development and improved mental health, making it a valuable expense for many individuals.

Building Trust Through Open Dialogue
Trust is a critical factor in the success of therapy. Vanesa uses open dialogue to create trust with her and couples clients. Clients who feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings, are more able to engage deeply in the therapeutic process.
Vanesa builds trust by practicing active listening and demonstrating empathy. She creates a non-judgmental atmosphere allowing clients to express their concerns without fear of criticism. Clients who feel their views are valued, are more likely to open up.
To illustrate, Vanesa asks open-ended questions to encourage clients to elaborate on their thoughts. With these questions she guides the conversation helping clients explore their feelings more thoroughly. In addition, she uses regular feedback and summary statements to show she is paying close attention to her clients’ experiences.
Marketing research from the American Psychological Association indicates that clients who have a strong therapeutic alliance with their therapists tend to have better treatment outcomes. Therefore, open communication plays a vital role in not just building trust but also enhancing therapy effectiveness.
The Journey to Self-Discovery
In Vanesa's therapy sessions she uses open communication to pave the way for self-discovery and personal growth. By encouraging individuals to express their feelings, thoughts, and experiences, they gain clarity about their lives and relationships. Vanesa is of the opinion that this improved self-awareness can lead to meaningful changes and improvements.
Self-discovery varies for each client. Vanesa's area of expertese lies in Relational Therapy. This therapy focusses on relationships and often involves looking into the past. Sharing childhood experiences can unveil deep-rooted beliefs that hinder their current happiness. Some clients might explore relationship dynamics that contribute to emotional distress. Whatever the case, the therapeutic process of open communication can guide clients toward greater understanding.
Additionally, Vanesa helps clients learn new communication skills during therapy sessions. These skills can be applied beyond the therapy room, enhancing relationships with family, friends, and colleagues. As clients practice expressing their thoughts and feelings in therapy, they can become more adept at communicating openly in everyday life and improvements are sustained over time.
Final Thoughts on Open Communication in Therapy
Open communication in therapy is vital for effective healing and personal growth. This process involve clients sharing their thoughts and feelings in a supportive environment while developing trust and vulnerability.
If you're interested in exploring Couples Therapy, or Relationship Counselling as it's also called, remember, the journey of self-discovery and healing can begin with one conversation.
In summary, open communication is the heart of therapy. It allows for honest expression, builds trust, and facilitates self-discovery. By engaging in open dialogue, clients can experience transformative growth and healing on their journey toward emotional well-being. Vanesa has opened her diary for Couples. Please book in using our website.
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